While things are undoubtedly challenging, it is more crucial than ever before to retain an optimistic mindset despite life’s many challenges
A friend of mine was recently having issues with trying to stay on top of work and home related matters during the pandemic. He was confiding to me about everything he had to do, and I was trying to help him make the most out of what he had. It took some doing, but he’s much better able to maintain a positive outlook. It was a struggle, but it did get me thinking!
The human brain is notorious for making bad things seem worse, while simultaneously being a bastion of hope in seemingly overwhelming odds. There is no denying that present events have left people anxious and exhausted, with so many having to deal with responsibilities of work and home simultaneously, forced to work from home to deal with the current pandemic. …
Never stop questioning
I apologize if it happens to raise the ire of anyone due to the strange reputation of the Flat Earth Society. It’s kind of a weird thought that anyone would even remotely believe that the Earth could be flat, and more often than not, some of the most significant representatives of the Society tend to be aggressive with their line of thinking.
I know there was a time when I wouldn’t have given it a second thought, and I might have even argued about it, but there is honestly little point in arguing with a flat-Earther.
I know this, because I would consider myself one. …
Can the iPhone 12 can go toe-to-toe with the best Android devices at present?
No thanks to the COVID-19 pandemic, Apple had to debut the latest iteration of its famous smartphone with less than the regular fanfare and hoopla. The company managed to stage a physical event with limited attendants and somewhat muted coverage.
Unfortunately, one of the subsequent media releases about the latest iPhone has not been that flattering. The previously unbeatable benchmark leader suddenly found itself not topping the test results.
‘Unimpressive’ benchmark scores
As reported on Forbes, Antutu benchmark test results leaked by Ice Universe for the iPhone 12 line showed a marginal bump. Based on a tip from serial leaker Ice Universe, the iPhone 12 Pro Max registered an Antutu score of 572,333, which is not too distant from the 524,436 score of IPhone 11 Pro Max. …
Are you looking for enlightenment or miracle cure?
It is an unfortunate fact that not everyone is ready for what life has to offer. Rarely anyone ever is. Life can often get us in a position where we feel we can’t get out, and we start to become desperate as we look for ways out.
It gets to the point where we start to believe things we typically wouldn’t, such as the so-called “miracle cures”. I’ve had too many friends fall for such a thing, even when I and many other friends are telling them to think things through.
My problem with these gurus in general, is their habit of preying on the weak and the vulnerable. While we all could use some help every now and then, I would recommend therapy over anything a guru might have to share, since the trouble with most spiritual “teachers” is that they make use of so many examples out there that don’t necessarily apply to your unique situation. …
So-called “gurus” and “coaches” can take advantage of our vulnerability — at least the fake ones
There are times when we hit a slump, fall into one of life’s many pits, and fail to get out of it on our own. It isn’t a very cheery thought, but it’s something that everyone goes through at one point in our lives.
In my case, there was an event that started the downward spiral that I’m honestly still a little too vulnerable to talk about. I needed help, and it was around the time when I started hearing from celebrities (I know, bad idea) about the effectiveness of having a life coach in their lives.
Somehow and some way, in my vulnerable time of need, the “gurus” had convinced me that for a few easy payments and a pep talk here and there, that things were going to be okay. It sounds like it’s too good to be true. However, based on my personal experience, anything too good to be true likely isn’t. …
Mental illness can be debilitating not only to the suferrer but also their loved ones and those who care for them
Few things in life that are harder than living with someone with schizophrenia. This chronic mental disorder — which affects a little under one percent of the population — isn’t just a debilitating condition that affects a person’s ability to manage their emotions properly, think clearly, make sound and rational decisions, and considerably lower their quality of life as a result.
Depending on its severity, it’s likely to have a significant impact on those around them too.
In fact, it’s a colossal undertaking to deal with a person with schizophrenia daily, especially if the individual suffering from this terrible illness is a loved one. You’ll find yourself constantly struggling with your own emotions and feel more than a little helpless amidst these trying circumstances. However, you must understand the symptoms it presents isn’t a death sentence. …
Feel-good vibes make you forget it’s 2020
Now here you go again, you say, you want your freedom. Well, who am I to keep you down? It’s only right that you should play the way you feel it, but listen carefully.
If what I typed made you think of a content man drinking juice while rolling down the street on his longboard, then you win the internet.
It’s a strange notion, but it’s been a strange year, and the social media viral sensations have been equally strange.
A viral video has been making the rounds in TikTok as of late, showcasing Nathan Apodaca rolling down his longboard, taking a swig off of his Ocean Spray cran-raspberry juice as he happily mouths off the lyrics to Fleetwood Mac’s Dreams. …
Be firm, be grateful, and don’t feel guilty about saying “no”
A few weeks back, I had a chance encounter with a former co-worker. We worked together on a project around 8 years ago. We drifted apart after that and lost communication as we got busy with other work and priorities. It was a pleasant surprise, although I did not expect what would happen next.
He asked me out on a date — he was in town for the weekend, and he thought it would be nice if we had dinner. I had to politely decline since I am currently in a committed relationship. …
From song structure, to melodic style, to chord progressions, we can learn a thing or two from how a song is written and played
What is music theory? Simply put, it is learning about what you can do with music and all of its possibilities. It explains how a musician or a composer can make music. It details how music works, allowing musicians to put their ideas into writing and share it with others. It is a way to understand the language that is music.
If you have ever imagined that music theory can only benefit musicians, you are in for a big surprise. When it comes to enhancing your writing skills, music can help in a significant way. …
Is it time to ditch your laptop for something more comfortable?
There was a time when the only challenges I had to worry about as a writer was the commitment, motivation, and general inspiration that come with typing up pages and trying to make sure everything comes together. However, as I continued honing my craft, I ended up neglecting one of the key things about longevity as a writer — the subject of ergonomics.
I had unknowingly developed bad habits, which unfortunately resulted in persistent and painful symptoms as a result of repetitive strain.
It had likely taken months — even years — for such types of injuries to develop, which means it would likely take just as long for me to fix. I started to figure out the best seating positions, the best way to exercise my hands, as well as a few best-practice methods based on the type of hardware I was using. It wasn’t easy (it still isn’t), but I’m slowly but surely undoing much of the damage caused by my reckless habits. …
